Second Marriage and Social Responses in Pakistani Society

In our society, illicit relationships are proudly heard and narrated, but if someone has second or third marriage as prescribed permissible in the religion of Islam, his life is made difficult to live and bitterly criticized by other people related to them as if a great sin has been committed in this connection. Everyone's behavior immediately becomes negative to the person who do second or third marriage. Even the people give him a situation as he has left the religion of Islam and become an apostate. The man who does the second marriage, the institution or organization in which he works, the staff from top to bottom start to hate him internally and become non cooperative. He passes through a very complicated situations. So when he is steadfastly facing such external surroundings, then he has a support of Allah Almighty from heaven and on earth his single partner that is his wife ... All other acquaintances transform into hostile in their relationships and if even in these circumstances when a man comes home and his wife instead of his protective shield behaves like a sword of complaint for him then the circumstances become complicated to that poor guy.... Even in the environment of this hypocritical world, the person who give an honour and prestige of marriage to a woman is no doubt that she is sincere for her. After marriage both husband and wife become a single soul in two bodies and stand through thick and thin. They both fight together against the hardships of life in their way of survival and prosperity. In such type of situation when husband is fighting for the mutual benefits then. There is a world of other reasons. Both husband and wife have become drunkards. He may have been fighting for a long time, but even the slightest taunt of wife does not seem less than an atom bomb. The pious old man narrated, I know a person who is passing through the same conditions and also has hostile attitude of his life partner even he is struggling for the better of his second wife. To a large extent that man has solved the problems like he has purchased the place for the construction of their house. While he is working on the matters of constructions of house unfortunately, he has to face hostile attitude of his wife which is an immense oppression with in a new family relations. I urged to narrate this whole story for the people who are supposed reader may solve their issues if may have the same scenes. He promised to tell in the next session.

The purpose of change over time is not only to make people arrogant, to turn a blind eye or to make a person bad, but also to change over time so that the person can improve himself, become a good person and become humble. And let us manage our affairs in a good way by looking at our own gain and loss, but unfortunately our society is always shown and taught negative things and man is entangled in them